Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Steps to Take If You Think He Is the Father of Your Child

How to know what steps to take if you think he is the father of your child? This is layed out by the courts. The use of organized, methods discover the paternity of a child with court assistance. Fathers are tested, eliminating any doubt for the courts.

It is frustrating deciding upon a child’s paternity when you are not sure who the father is. However, there are legal ways to find paternity. If the suspected father agrees, it is possible to take the normal steps of a paternity search, merely signing a few papers.

 A child cannot be legally claimed as the father’s until the father has signed the birth certificate or other affidavits acknowledging paternity.Some simply sign the birth certificate at the hospital whether parents are married or not; this keeps things simple.

Why Know “Who’s the Father"?



It is important for every child to know, if possible, their legal father. Health issues may occur and family history may play a part in aiding the health of a child. Parenting relationships are essential in growing up a balanced person. Paternity protects the benefits of children for inheritance purposes, social security and other legal entitlements.

Ways to Prove Paternity:

Judges can establish paternity by entering a Paternity Order; people in family court cases trying to establish parental rights often initiate this. Attesting by making legal declaration is official and legal in all courts. Administrative Paternity is put into action by human services departments with more agencies initiating legal paternity than in the past. Both parents can agree to paternity reducing legal conflict. If a man does not appear for a hearing, he can be declared the father by default.

DNA Testing:

This is one certain way to prove paternity. This is a genetic way of proving if people are related with a 99.9 % probability rate. This testing traces no diseases and is not intended for any medical procedure. This process is used in a number of paternity cases, in proving a person is related. DNA testing is generally initiated by a swabbing of the mouth. People can offer chewing gum samples, or saliva. Another name for the swabbing of the cheek is the “Buccal Swab.” After collection, samples are mailed for testing.

At least three types of test are available, each done with relative accuracy, Y-Chromosome, Autosomal (atDNA) and  mitochondrial DNA (mtDNA). Labs will store DNA but upon request by donor will destroy a sample.  DNA is a very powerful tool in the investigation of child paternity and a number of other identification searches.

Many women obtain this service through child support agencies; however, there may be a fee and results should be documented. This testing has the ability to change a person’s life. Realizing a person is a part of your life is, life changing.

When signing a paternity agreement people can change their minds but only under strict circumstances. There are also forms to be signed, called, Rescission of Voluntary Acknowledgement of paternity forms. A signer has a period of 60 days to sign this form, from original signature date. If after this date, the VAP document can only be challenged in court if a person is forced to sign, fraud has been committed or a mistake was made.

Voluntary acknowledgement of paternity makes things very simple. This is as close as it gets without two people being married and acknowledging a child’s birth. The father simply signs the birth certificate with no argument and no court appearances. Declaring the name on the birth certificate is a clean clear way of acknowledging a child and avoiding future confusion.

Friday, April 18, 2014

How Women Develop Better Relationships

Stop taking care of these men in a relationship ladies and take care of yourselves. If he will not be a man and take care of you. Let him sleep with his friends and they will make him pay his share of the rent. No free rides based on his favors in the relationship. Learn a thing or two from his homeys and don't be a sucker.

If you could be a fly on the wall and hear the ugly things said about women who pay a man's bills you would not buy one a cup of coffee. Learn how to stop being the joke of the dog pound. When a man is done with you, his friends will be waiting in line to use you too. Don't be a joke, learn how to stop being the joke at the bar.

Too many women are still taking anything off a man; just to say they have a man. This is a new day ,women, have careers, businesses, college degrees. The days of taking anything just to say you have a pair of pants is ridiculous. If all you want is a trophy go out and buy yourself a statue and sit it on your mantle at least it will not make you miserable. It really hurts when you see him taking care of someone else.


In some relationships, a few of you are paying his rent,car note, and gym membership while he is looking for some other woman he can take care of. Wakeup. When he gets it together you will be the last thing he will want to see. He will not want to be with what reminds him of his weakness, YOU. Wakeup ladies. Let a MAN be a MAN. He will appreciate you a whole lot more. IMHO

Tiffany Latte

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Staying on Course with Beauty Treatments



You ladies have been working hard all of this time to take care of yourselves. Just checking in to make sure you are staying on course.

It is so very easy to get caught up in everything that is going on in your life and neglect yourself, as the day goes on it seems you have a thousand things pulling at your time. But it is extremely important to take out time for you.


To begin paying special attention to you; if only for a few minutes each day is a start. Ten minutes to do your nails fifteen minutes for a facial will make a tremendous difference in your looks and the way you feel about yourself. The better you take care of yourself the more you will like yourself. If you like yourself you will automatically become beautiful.


How many times have you seen women who were what the world considered plain become happy with themselves? Suddenly these women bloom into gorgeous flowers. Take a hint ladies, do what you need to do to look after you.