Stop taking care of these men in a relationship ladies and take care of yourselves. If he will not be a man and take care of you. Let him sleep with his friends and they will make him pay his share of the rent. No free rides based on his favors in the relationship. Learn a thing or two from his homeys and don't be a sucker.If you could be a fly on the wall and hear the ugly things said about women who pay a man's bills you would not buy one a cup of coffee. Learn how to stop being the joke of the dog pound. When a man is done with you, his friends will be waiting in line to use you too. Don't be a joke, learn how to stop being the joke at the bar.
Too many women are still taking anything off a man; just to say they have a man. This is a new day ,women, have careers, businesses, college degrees. The days of taking anything just to say you have a pair of pants is ridiculous. If all you want is a trophy go out and buy yourself a statue and sit it on your mantle at least it will not make you miserable. It really hurts when you see him taking care of someone else.

In some relationships, a few of you are paying his rent,car note, and gym membership while he is looking for some other woman he can take care of. Wakeup. When he gets it together you will be the last thing he will want to see. He will not want to be with what reminds him of his weakness, YOU. Wakeup ladies. Let a MAN be a MAN. He will appreciate you a whole lot more. IMHO
Tiffany Latte
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